Formerly known as Peking, Beijing, 1928, the national government capital in Nanjing, was changed to the special city of Peking, nineteen years and was renamed Peiping, directly under the jurisdiction of the Executive Yuan, referred to as municipality, located in northern Hebei Province currency. Due to "cultural ancient capital," said the customs of the impact on social life, when the more far-reaching. By Peking wedding, there are four general common person, the so-called North ceremony, south ceremony, flag ceremony, salute; but since the Republic, the "Southern Man" seems to mix in the "North Man" into, and then collectively, the "Peking wedding" was.
Wedding program is:
First, divination
Divination of the vulgar, is not unique to one city and one county, the country most of this, of course, Peking is no exception. In the north a person's age in mind, the most important zodiac, in particular, to marry, all the zodiac of allelopathy depends on the behavior.People spouse for their children, must be "matchmaker" from two "propose marriage", the steps are, first ask the matchmaker zodiac girls, and get the "character", the girl's "character" to the groom, and then obtain boy's "character" re-send the woman home, both sides please "fortune teller" fortune-telling, such as hit men and women did not vying for the office, and there is the possibility of marriage only when the proposed marriage, or although the "perfect match", only to give up, and this move commonly known as "divination."Proposed marriage success, the biggest key to all the divination of the "fortune teller" a word may be. So, if one of them into the very hope of a good thing, as much in advance divination "fortune teller" bribe people.As the saying goes: "White Horse Youth guilty of cattle, sheep, mouse, once off, the wrong knife tiger snake, dragon rabbit tear exchange, Jade Rooster fear dogs, not pigs monkey head." Relative to men and women have committed more than Zodiac, marriage would be difficult to Yue He the. Conversely, if two of the Zodiac with students, on the other conditions can be accommodated. The Zodiac is appropriate Match: "mouse with cattle, pigs tiger with the sheep with rabbit, horse with a dog." Liangzao men and women is the most important. Also: groom Qiuqin, very sensitive to a tiger, a sheep girl. As the saying goes: "Tiger door, will be hurt." And there is a sheep girl "life hard quebracho," said. So if a female family eager to mate, which is very desirable when a home boy, to achieve their goals, often hiding the true sign of the Zodiac, otherwise it is difficult to succeed.
Second, blind
Divination results, as the two sides are not in committed sign of the Zodiac, the second step is a blind procedure, in conjunction with both parents by the matchmaker, convention venues, or in any one home meet, as the saying called "love." Both sides of the note, is whether the correct appearance of men and women, whether physical disability, this is mostly accompanied by a matchmaker who groom together about women at home, but also about the groom's, then women have to pay attention to the groom's family family situations and economic conditions. See if the luxurious furnishings, places for well-off, of course, happy to arrange a match; see if the interior depression, utterly destitute, and many children, places for poor families, marriage proposal, when a negative attitude will be adopted.If the results of blind date when both parties are satisfied, then check the character of men and women two of the "three." The so-called "three" is check whether the relative harm their parents place. If we can get guitar, and then write the marriage certificate, and the sedan chair, got down and preparing for the wedding of the hour, orientation, and accept money, pro-Ying date, write in detail on the marriage certificate.
Third, put a small set
Both men and women believe that they can get married, the next step is the next "small set" ceremony. "Small set" of the gift, and not a certain standard, ordinary people are almost four boxes of gift. Such as gold bracelets, rings, wishful, and Joel Diamond Chai Chuan variety of jewelry and the like, packing boxes; cloth and embroidered skirts and other items also loaded into the two boxes. Jewelry is pure gold, followed by a gold, silver bracelet again have to buy, of course, should both social class and economic circumstances.
Woman home to display the entire day, banquet tables, entertainment to the next ceremony Damei, pay attention to the people, there are 20 kind of fruit, these fruit are four dirty, four honey, four dry, four fresh, four snacks and so on. Women after the family received the gift of the groom, the groom should get back four which gifts, such as: four treasures of the box, boots (shoes) hat box, the long robe box, cloth box. These gifts would be grateful matchmaker back in the day, to the groom.
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